Good things in life comes in three's

I just wanna give you guys three amazing tips I recently just discovered to help you through life

#LEARN TO BE YOURSELF AT ALL TIMES#

Most us are usually not ourselves at most times. You can tell that when you find it difficult to do majority of the things you do alone or with family, out in public. It kind of limits your person and makes you unfree, and eventually insecure. Just know that in life, we are free to express ourselves the exact way we feel. But sometimes we feel we gotta act perfect and hence we feel conscious of every action we take, becoming jittery and eventually low self esteemed.

My dears, you don't have to be perfect in your actions! You don't have to act perfect! Act natural, act you. Whatever you would do on a personal base should be your line of action on a daily. Be free, let the world see you for who you truly are. Everyone is not meant to like you. If your actions are pleasing to them, then so be it. If not, then life  goes on. Don't be afraid to show the real you. It might look pretty scary at first, that's the truth, because you'd be scared of what people would think, the truth is some would be pleased, some would not. That shouldn't bother you. Act out your natural acting!!!( lol, I'm a bit high on motivation).

So from now on, make a mental note to do that which is what you want to do and not that which is what you feel you're expected to do.

Being you is what's fun and unpredictable.

Acting you is what's monotonous and characterized with low self-confidence

Am also on the journey of being me. I barely even started yet I see my self becoming a much happier person, and loving myself. So join me as we soar through this walk of life.

#NEVER COMPARE YOURSELF TO SOMEONE ELSE, EITHER POSITIVELY OR NEGATIVELY#

This is actually something that 99.9% of people engage in, knowingly or otherwise. This is one of the things that kills spirit, its like poison in food. You have no idea how deep it has gotten you, till you're aware of it. Comparison of one's self with people is like a disease, its bad, its has negative effects. Comparison of ones self with others leaves one in the open, unsheltered and prone to harm in form or the other. You kinda expose yourself and are susceptible to many emotions, positive or negative. When you start comparing yourself with people, you have automatically lost objectivity in your actions, here you place yourself in peoples situation, and act from their own perspective. Now imagine placing yourself in a whole population's situation, thereby acting from hundreds of perspectives. It creates confusion! No peace of mind, fear, mixed feelings and most importantly, instability.

#LEARN TO WORK AT YOUR OWN NATURAL PACE#

Just as people are different, so does opinions and beliefs differ, also, so do there exist different ways of doing things by different people. As quoted by Socrates, "Man know thy self",  one must know one's self and know what works for him. One should know one's natural pace, flow or speed, and work well with it. External pressure makes us tend to move way faster than we can naturally handle, putting us in a tight, hence unstable position. 

So guys just try to see if you can incorporate these three things into your lifestyle and feel the change.

Mbamarah Julia
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