OBJECTIVITY

#Objectivity is key# Experience and lots of rational thinking has taught that objectivity in life is the major way out. Look into the life of successful people, when I say successful, I don't just mean someone materially rich, I mean rich in all aspect of his being, intellectually good, emotionally sound , physically balanced, furnished character wise and materially endowed, now that is the successful man for life. So a thorough look into these kind, and one finds something common, which is their objectivity in dealing with issues. Objectivity in this sense means dealing with your problem from the approach of the problem, problem qua problem. Solving a problem only by tackling just the problem itself and not the ruckus that arises due to these problems. Take for instance, you're in shopping mall, and you mistakenly spill a whole basket containing oranges, the inobjective person has this running through his mind; oh my God, I just spilled these oranges; oh my God, the owner is staring right at me; oh my, people are staring; urgghh this is the worst and most embarrassing day of my life. Hence the inobjective  person instead of thinking in terms of solving the problem, actually creates more problems for himself by thinking about these irrelevant things - the ruckuses. But, when the same scenario present itself for the objective mind, these majorly plays through his mind; oh, the oranges spilled; I'll just pack that up and apologize to the owner, probably tip him a bit too. When the problem of people staring arises, his thoughts; duh, of course people are supposed to stare, it's not everyday you see a guy spill oranges, lol just kidding, but people are normally meant to stare, cause that's just like a distraction, disruption from their normal activities, but what do I care, I don't think from the view point of others, I think in terms of me, that is me being objective. With these said and done,  and without much ado, I'd like to sign out here. Julia. M. Quotes. Bringing you tips for the betterment of life.